Friday, March 12, 2010

Bura Jo Dekhan main chala

rahiman dhaaga prem ka
mat todo chitkaaye
tote se phir na jude
jude gaath per jaye

aisi vani boliyein
mann ka aapa koye
auron ko sheetal kare
aapo hi sheetal hoye

sai inta dijieye
Jaa mein kutamb samaye
main bhi bhooka na raho
sadhu na bhooka jaye

bura jo dekhan main chala
bura na milya koye
jo mann khojha aapna
to mujhse bura na koi

Simple lines but means a lot ... may be you also like it so I put it here ..

Monday, February 15, 2010

too much of work...

Too much of work... day and night work, work and only work .... :) But I am enjoying it .... Anyhow I dont have any other option so I thought instead of complaining I should enjoy it :) :) I thought listening music at this time will definielty help me out....

So why dont you listen some soft, ispirational and old hindi songs cum prayers with me :) Here are the links for you...

Reply me back if you like them ..

need to continue with my work ... write you more about me later

Love you all

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Be a winner instead of a victim

With me, a lot of times, something undesirable happens and I start blaming people or circumstances just to make myself comfortable. I think of so many reasons to excuse myself and convince myself that I am not the one to blame. Sometimes, I even put the blame on my best friend, you call Him, God.

So, let’s see how I think and talk to myself:

– When the job market was bad, I said “I cannot find a job because of the bad job market. It’s tough to get a good package now.” I will wait for the job market to improve or wait for the next excuse I could think of. :)

– I am unhappy because my girl friend dumped me and I lost my job. I will just wait for some miracle to happen so that my girl friend and my job will come to me by its own.

– I lost the competition because the referee made a lousy call and gave some important points to my opponent. I lost interest and stopped playing. I will not play with those unfair people anymore.

– My love ones have lost faith in me. They think that I have let them down. They started believing on what others say. They don’t want to talk to me anymore. But why should it worry me. I have given my whole life for their sake. I don’t need to prove that I am right. I will not kneel down before anybody. I will not discuss any issue with them.

– If I can't think of any reason, I will simply think that my luck is bad. I will just wait for my luck to get better.

When you blame things on others, it makes you feel like a victim. You feel weak and powerless. You feel defeated. You feel like a victim of your destiny. Its fine to think of reasons. But if you take the responsibility of everything that happens to you (instead of blaming things on other people and circumstances) you will feel an immense power which will turn you from a victim into a winner. There is a lot of difference between taking the blame on youself and taking the responsibility. You never have to blame yourself for what is happening to you.

You don’t have the control on what happens to you but what distinguishes a winner from a loser is how you react to the things that happens to you. Someone has nicely define the 10:90 rule which states that you do not have control to the 10 percent of the things that happens to you but you have control on the 90 percent of what you do as you react to those situations. You have complete control on how you react to those things. Taking the responsibility makes you action oriented. You know it is you who have to do something about it instead of waiting for the situation or your luck to change. You will see your mind working toward the solution, towards making you a winner. You will be amazed with the power of your mind when you really want it to work for you.

Let’s see how your winner mind will think in the above situations when you take the responsibility,

– Job market is bad, I have to work harder to get a job.

– As my girl friend is not with me and I have lost my job, I have to find another girl friend and a job. Am I right? Better leave the girl friend, yes? But definitely, I will go find a job. :)

– I will work harder and will give my best. Losing and winning is part of life but giving your best is what matters. I have to work on my weak points. I have to point out if the referee is wrong and giving favor to opponent because of some reason. This would help prevent it from happening again, not only to me but to other players. Loosing the game has increase the adrenaline level in my blood. I will work hard.

– My love ones are my well wishers. They are disturbed as I am disturbed. They are sad as I am sad. They love me so much. It's just a bad phase of life. Talk to them and discuss my issues with them. Listen to them peacefully. Take some time and give others some time. One day, truth will prevail. Wait for the right time. The loved ones will become one soon.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (1 Cor. 13:4-8 NIV)

So from this time onward, when you see yourself thinking or talking about your excuses to put the blame on others, stop it right away. Irrespective of what situation you are in, take the responsibility of your life, take charge of your life and be a winner!!

As, rightly said by someone "Tough times don’t last but tough people do."

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. (James 1:2-4 NIV)

Friday, December 11, 2009

Are You Going To Finish Strong

hey doston...

I hope everybody is doing good .... may be not like me but better :)

One of friend sent me one link today and I really liked it too much ...

so I thought I should share this will you all as well...

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Life is Beautiful: Am I Joking :)

I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avant garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ... I will.

I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set. They, too, will get old.

I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.

So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.

So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day(if I feel like it).

Hey what r u waiting for .... DESSERTS... sorry man..... Hard luck... I already had it all :)

enjoy... Life is beautiful.... yup .. that's true man....

ITS NOT MINE.... :):):):)... like it so post it... copy and paste :):);)

Monday, November 30, 2009


Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Badminton Tournament in Jeddah

Amazing …………….. How could it possible ….. A country where football, the crazy game, is the god or better said Ullah for everybody.. ..then how come you are talking about Badminton. ….

Yes, the same thought came to my mind when I came to know about this club. This club is situated near the one of the poshest and securest area of Jeddah… securest being as it is very near to American Embassy…… the so called VIP country of this world :)…..

I joined this club thinking that I would be able to pass my time and the other benefit was that I could skip the gym :) ...So I joined this club and start playing badminton with my office colleagues. I never thought that it was going to be so big. The club has 8 indoor badminton courts which I had never seen in any of the club in India. The court was so cleaned, too managed that I must say that it was one of the best clubs I had ever seen.

Here, I got the chance to know people from Pakistan, Indonesia, Philippines, Russia, British…. Now this place was doing two things for me … help me in improving my badminton game and the second I could know more people from all over the world. I can know there behavior, their culture, their liking and disliking….. a book which is still unopened for me….

I met with a Philippino guy here, aged around 40 who were playing good badminton game. We played together and then he offered me to join his group. He told me that I was playing good and I could improve my game and he will help me in this.

I joined his group, and learned a lot from him and the other team members of the group. Last Thursday, we had a badminton tournament (doubles) and I was playing from two categories. I really worked hard for the tournament and with the right help from my partners I won the championship in both the categories. Even I don’t know those medals and trophy matters for me or not, but one thing that effort and pain I took to learn the game, I respect that. I really respect those people who kept faith in me and my game and gave their best to help me in improving my game.

I am still playing twice or thrice a week…. Enjoying the company of my new friends…….. seeing their culture and absorbing good things from their culture… I think winning a championship was meager in front of the valuable time which I am spending with these new friends….…. ….…. I felt that I won something else which is important more that the championship……